FACT: Pain can be visible, but never spoken about. People see your scares through your everyday actions; and even your visible physical abuse. They dare not say anything. Feeling as if it is none of their business. They hurt for you, but respect you or maybe just a afraid to inquire. If you never open your mouth, many are going to assume you are ok.
Lydia a 32 yr old woman. has been being abused physically and mentally by her abuser. She nerve spoke a word of this. No one ever saw the physical abuse, but knew there were something wrong with Lydia. Age fifteen she was sexually abused by here uncle, which did not end until 17 years until his demise. Lydia still never spoke a word. Her voice became locked; from fear, depression, guilt. Lydia is dealing with emotional freeze. What people had noticed about Lydia is that she was sad all the time, resentful, withdrawn a lot of times.Most off all she was always angry. When all your hurt and pain began to control your day, everything a round you becomes dark. You now do not see the light. People are no longer visible to you. This why you do not share and open up. What will they think or feel. We all realize and come to know that other women are gossipers and be-belittling. This was a stage that Lydia did not want to cross. What was she to do? Who was she to call on. Her voice was locked. By the sheer ignorance of others. It is ao important to find your voice, to be able to find your place in the world as well as own it.
#TEARS AND SMILES COULD SAY A LOT WITHOUT DEFINITION, BUT YOU VOICE WILL GIVE YOUR ACTIONS MEANING